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Estoy aquí hoy como siempre lo estaré.

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My dearest love and friend is going through a heartbreaking moment in her life and I feel her emotions as if she were inside my very body. 

She is inside my heart, my soul and mind for I love her truly, madly and deeply. I feel her emotions every second of every minute of ever day for we are connected by an energy few are Blessed to share. 

Mi Corazon, mi amor, I can only say ......

 Estoy y siempre estaré aquí para ti, mi querido amor. Solo puedo ofrecerte mi amor y mi abrazo. Soy tu LightHouse personal y te estoy enviando mi Luz. Cuando estés listo ven y llora conmigo. Mi corazón está lleno de tristeza y oración. Estoy aquí hoy como siempre lo estaré. Sepa que no está solo en este momento difícil.

How do you ease the sorrow of a friend who is suffering the pain of  possibly losing one of their beloved parents?

I wish I knew.

I wish I could reach into her heart and hug the pain till it turns to joy.  Unfortunately, that's not possible.

I can only offer my prayer and my embrace.

I can shed a tear with her. I can hug her tightly as she cries.

Yet, her pain will still exist. 

Our minds are equipped to deal with all the pains, sorrows, loves and joys we will experience throughout our walk, but no where are we guaranteed the relief of hurt.

Losing a parent never heals. Never will those silent tears stop. 

I am not the type of person who would say such things as,
"She will be free of pain. She will be in a better place."

For, even after my own returns from death seven times now, I cannot claim that to be true. No one but the Ascended know what lays beyond the Walk we walk here in this space and time.
The most heard sentence at any such crisis has to be,
"Time will heal all wounds."

No greater lie has ever been spoken. Time heals nothing. Time prolongs the pain. Time teaches us to hide our pain and put on a brave smile hoping that others do not see how true our sorrow actually is.

Being over sixty years old and living the life I have, I have faced the sorrow my beloved Queen is facing. I have lived with the murder of my mother for thirty-nine years now and I can attest that today I hurt as much as I did that fateful day.

No, time heals no such emotions as anguish or loss.

My love can provide her with a dry shoulder to wet with her tears, a pair of caring arms to hold her trembling body and whisper consoling words in her ear.

This is all any of us can do at such times.

If you truly and devotedly love a person then this is all you can do. 

Do not over compensate your words in hopes of relieving their sorrow. Do not speak the same generic statements we have been programmed to say.

Instead, hold them if they need holding. Embrace them if they need an embrace.

Most of all, show and tell them the depth of your love for them.

Be silent if they need quiet. Be joyful if they need joy.

Be yourself, the person they know you to be.

When the initial shock has dispersed and they can once more reason they will see that you are there, beside them, with them and crying with and for them.

Love heals the symptoms of sorrow.

Love assures the loved ones that they are not walking this path alone.

If your love is true you will know what, when, why and how to alleviate their hurt as possible as you may.

Remember that such a pain will never leave but with a loving friend, spouse or soul mate life can and shall go on.

Be their "LIGHTHOUSE" and guide them safely through their darkened path, leading them safely ashore to a love with arms wide open.

I love you Mi Fuego de Mi Corazon. I am here for you now, yesterday, tomorrow and for all eternity.

I am praying that both your Mother's, Father's and your own pain does not break your spirits. I am praying the Creators are merciful and just.

MOST OF ALL MY LOVE, I AM PRAYING AND SENDING LOVE, LIGHT AND POSITIVE ENERGY TO YOU.

My shoulder is waiting, my ears are ready and my heart is full.

I will Walk with you through this sad time.

I am your LightHouse and although I am petite my love for you is gigantic.

I am and always shall be here for you my dearest love. I can only offer you my love and my embrace. 

I am your personal LightHouse and I am sending you my Light. 

When you are ready come and cry with me. My heart is full of sorrow and prayer. I am here today as I shall always be. Know that you are not alone at this difficult time.







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